EMDR Therapy FAQs

  • EMDR works more directly with the brain and nervous system. Rather than focusing on insight or storytelling, it uses bilateral stimulation (like eye movements or tapping) to help the brain reprocess distressing memories. It can often bring faster relief for trauma, anxiety, or shame than insight-based approaches alone.

  • Yes. EMDR is especially helpful for attachment wounds and early developmental trauma. We’ll use a gentle, parts-informed approach to support the younger parts of you that might still be carrying those experiences.

  • Yes. While EMDR is best known for treating trauma, it’s also helpful for a wide range of emotional and behavioral patterns that feel stuck, overwhelming, or hard to shift.

    People use EMDR to work through:

    • Anxiety and panic

    • Grief and loss

    • Low self-esteem or harsh inner critics

    • Perfectionism and people-pleasing

    • Relationship patterns and attachment issues

    • Phobias or specific fears

    • Creative blocks or performance anxiety

    You don’t have to have a big “T” trauma for EMDR to be effective. If something is interfering with how you show up in your life—and it feels like talking about it isn’t enough—EMDR can help.

  • Nope. That’s one of the things that makes EMDR different. You don’t have to tell your story out loud for the therapy to be effective. I’ll know enough to guide the process, and you’ll still get to process what’s coming up—internally and safely.

  • That’s okay. EMDR can still work with sensations, emotions, or general themes. Sometimes your body or parts of your system remember things your mind doesn’t—and we can still work safely with that material.

  • It’s possible to feel activated or emotionally stirred after sessions—but we build in a lot of support, resourcing, and grounding along the way. You won’t be dropped into hard material without a rope. And you’ll always leave sessions with tools to regulate and come back to center.